UnityFirst.com
Special Report: Bill Cosby
Bill Cosby's remarks have prompted
a range of responses from communities across the U.S.
We invite you to review this summary of the comments
submitted to UnityFirst.com:
'Voice from the upper class'
Bill's comments are on target but are to none effect.
Those that Bill's comments are directed toward are lower
middle class or poor, the weaker of our society, living
in an area abandoned by people like myself and Bill.
Bill and I are the upper class minority members, once
the best of the black community, who has abandoned our
people to live with upper class or rich members of the
dominate group. Like it or not we were roll models to
our people while in the community but now away from
the community we have become "successful niggers"
on a pedestal unreachable by the community that produced
us. Someone once said, we move away from the community
because it has nothing to offer..., a community that
produced a Bill or an Oprah or even myself had a lot
to offer, it was us. I shall return. - Otis
Address the use of vulgar language
Bill is right on target about the black community. We
should listen, take heed, and try to do better just
as he suggests. The black generations are getting worse.
The language is terrible. We do not have to use vulgar
language to get our points across. We can simply use
English. - Angela
Check out Randall Robinson's book,
"Quitting America
I applaud Bill Cosby's statements, he right on time
with it. However, Randall Robinson was the first to
talk about this (very eloquently) in his Book "Quitting
America..." As a African-American female, I am
disappointed with the current programming of BET. I'm
totally disgusted with the HipHop videos that portray
African-American women in such a disgusting role. I
was shocked to see a movie about pimping. Again I say
that Randall Robinson discussion about BET in his book
is exactly how I feel. - Natalie
Initiate a serious national discussion
Bill Cosby has accomplished something that the leadership
of black America has failed to do -- initiate a serious
national discussion regarding the ills of the African
American community. Racism is an insidious sin that
has permeated all facets of American society. RACISM
IS the direct cause of many of the problems we experience
as a community but Mr. Cosby is right. Racism has little
to do with a young man dropping out of high school.
There are tons of programs designed to keep children
in school. Our young men opt out and drop out. Our ancestors
died to give us the right to attend school. Before that,
our ancestors built schools so that their children could
get an education. RACISM is not the cause of rap artists
referring to women as bitches and whores in their music.
Rap artists exert more influence on today's youth than
parents, pastors, and teachers. This is not right. Getting
an education is not an easy task and parents need to
step up to the plate and ensure that their children
succeed in school. It is not the teacher's or the principal's
responsibility to make sure our children come to school
prepared to learn, i.e., they've had a good breakfast,
have clean clothes, have had enough rest and are not
influenced by a parent's use of drugs, alcohol, or sexual
activity. Our children are failing in school and dropping
out because of us -- Parents! Too many of us have children
and don't care what happens to them. It is not the job
of the school superintendent to make sure our children
have a safe and decent home to live. It is the job of
parents to provide a nurturing environment so that children
know they are loved. It is the job of parents to instill
in children that getting an education is a NECESSITY
and not an option. Bill Cosby was right! I am sorry
he has taken so much criticism for what he said, but
he is right! It is not the government's job to take
care of our children. It is not the job of the foster
care system (a system that relies on the kindness of
strangers) to take care of our children. It is the job
of PARENTS!!!! As African American parents, we need
to get a grip on the real causes of why our children
are failing to become productive citizens. Bill Cosby
was right! We have become our own worst enemy. - Sharon
Rich, but informed
Bill is telling the truth. Just because he is wealthy
does not mean that he isn't still Black and cannot say
what is on his mind. He speaks for many of us that don't
have the voice and opportunity to say what's on our
minds. If he were talking and not doing it would be
one thing, but Dr. Cosby has giving generously to help
those less fortunate than himself and his family. Those
who are getting mad at what he is saying fit into two
categories:
1. Guilty: He was talking about them and therefore stepping
on their toes
2. Ignorant: They feel that he shouldn't tell the truth
about his own people in front of the White man because
it looks like he's siding with them and downing his
people, which is not the case.
No other community would let this
go on
Cosby has said what we all must support. We allowed
our communities to be the "dumping grounds"
for every manner of illicit drugs, crime, prostitution,
so much so until it has shape the thinking of our elders
and corrupted us until we have accepted this madness
as normal. No other people would allow the insanity
that goes on in our midst. Because we don't support
the law and we fear the local hoods, we are getting
what we deserve. Asad
Tell it like it is
Bill Cosby is really telling it like it is. As black
folks, we have for too long tried to escape the reality
of taking responsibility for our own shortcomings. We
have always blamed someone else. It is really time we
step up to the plate and make some positive moves of
our own
Truth promotes healing
I truly feel what Dr. Cosby spoke about, is an area
that we as African American's have known about but have
decided not to talk about or look at. Until we see it
for what it really is, and take responsibility for our
own actions will we be able to heal and move on.
Unity vs. Uniformity
My sense is that Bill Cosby's comments serve a very
useful purpose in the overall scheme of things. Consequently,
I tend to view those comments positively. Moreover,
far too many of us (Blacks) suffer defeat by default
.We are forever challenged to find a way or make one.
Black unity (not uniformity) is as vital to our continued
progress today as it ever was before. Get a grip and
take responsibility William
Speaking the truth - some kids don't
know how to use utensils
It is about time someone spoke the truth. We have a
responsibility to teach, nurture and be role models
to our children. I cannot see how we can blame the white
man for our children's behavior, lack of the interest
in education and bad manners. Some of these children
are in schools and neighborhoods with very little contact
with whites. I have had children in my home, as a foster
parent, whose moms were 30 years old while the children
were 15 years old. Some did not know how to use a fork
and knife. (Fast food) doesn't require utensils. We
need to get a grip and take responsibility for our own
lives and those of our children. Ina
Man in the Mirror
I'm writing this to respond to the comments made toward
Mr. Cosby. When Michael Jackson recorded "Man In
The Mirror", he was telling people to look at themselves
first before assigning blame elsewhere. In my opinion,
Mr. Cosby is saying the same thing. Maybe he's doing
it a little louder than Mike did. Maybe what Bill Cosby
says isn't as smooth sounding as "Man In The Mirror"
or any of the MANY uplifting, self-awareness songs that
have been recorded. One thing's for sure......IT'S THE
TRUTH!! All those folk who are screaming "Dirty
Laundry" are in denial. Do they really think that
what Mr. Cosby is saying is a secret? What world do
they live in? Not the one I do. I hear people of other
cultures say these same things all the time. In conversations
at our family dinners, barbershops & hair salons,
church, and anywhere else Black people KEEP IT REAL,
you hear the same thing. Whether you want to believe
it or not. The difference is that once you acknowledge
the problem, then you can begin to repair it. If you
never accept the reality .........you'll be yelling
"Dirty Laundry" for some time to come. Time
is running out. Kev
Look at yourself
Mr. Cosby's comments are on time and absolutely correct.
Years ago, when my parents were trying to make it in
this segregated, prejudice world, all they wanted was
the chance to prove themselves-- no handouts, no giveaways.
They were convinced that they could perform miracles
if just given a fair chance. In these times. our young
people have more chances and handouts and giveaways
than my generation or my parents generations could have
ever dreamed of. Yet we are still behind, using tired
and worthless arguments to explain laziness and poor
attitudes. Yes, the other race still has a bit of control,
but we have more opportunities for success than any
of the previous generations of African- Americans ever
did. It is time to look at ourselves and get the lead
out... Mr. Cosby is right, and for those who might be
offended, perhaps they should look carefully at themselves
and see that they are part of the problems, rather than
one of the folks who are part of the solutions...
Get the issues out of the closet
I believe Mr. Cosby's comments are right on target.
I don't see how anyone can blame him for airing dirty
laundry. We should take a closer look at the entire
black community. We have seen some success, but the
vast majority of our community does a wonderful job
of airing our dirty laundry. Instead of pointing a finger
at Mr. Cosby, we need to look at our literacy rates,
our test scores, our high school drop out rates and
our teen pregnancy rates...just to name a few. Instead
of keeping these issues in the closet, we need to have
more people come forward so that we can begin a "real"
dialogue about the many issues facing the black community.
Then we need to look at viable solutions. Once the laundry
is aired, it can be properly cleaned. Monica
Talk about communication skills
Personally I feel that he was right on target. Too many
times our speech and conversation make us seem like
idiots. Listen to some of sports figures. They make
a lot of money, but their communication skills are terrible.
Percy
From a Rhode Island professional
If there is anyone that has been a champion of Black
culture, heritage and education as being part of the
American braintrust, it is Bill Cosby. Publicly, He
and Sidney Poitier before him have been entertainment's
spokesmen for the transforming America's prospects for
the educated Black Middle, and Upper-Middle classes.
Privately, he and his wife Camile, now doing a wonderful
oral history of our senior citizens, have consistently
raised the bar. His most recent statements are an observation
of a consistent lifetime movement and not a knee jerk
reaction to something that only happened yesterday.
Whites wishing to look down on Blacks have never had
any problem finding 'Black dirt' to throw. What Cosby
is doing is now is to simply identifying the path that
many capable young people are following, led by popular
Rappers and pop culture, closes the gate on the paths
to their children pursuing the path of opportunity requiring
classic education, accepted communication skills and
and work and family practices. The tragedy is the values
lost by the Twenty-something and Thirty-something Blacks
that lack good models of success for their too-young
families. The popular music scene exploits our dirty
laundry more than "the Coz" ever could. As
a Black Upper-Middleclass professional, I think the
generation that is most challenged are the tail end
of the Baby-Boomers that need to extend a hand the way
Cosby's parents and he are doing for those graduating
from high school now. We're going from epidemic to crisis.
Cosby's words are a warning shot across the bow for
the community to change its course and get back on track
or be destined to a journey of limited progress. The
economic figures show that as a people we have not gone
very far since the 60's and the gap will continue to
widen if we don't participate in the mainstream .Kevin
Kids in church also have issues
I want to chime in on the many others who applaud Bill
for his forthright, truthful expression and description
of the state of African American youth as a result of
the way too many African American parents approach their
responsibility for raising their/our children. I resonate
with Dr. Cosby's point of view because he is right on
target. We have a situation in my own church community
where my wife and several other members of our congregation
have launched a discussion about the attitude, manner
of dress and behavior of some of our teenage parishioner
who serve as acolytes and ushers. When this was first
aired, the parents of these children where upset, angry
and threatened to pull their children out of our church.
The youngsters too, were upset and felt personally attacked.
But the small delegation of parishioners prevailed,
through persistence and declaration of intent, and now
we are seeing a change in the attitude and dress and
level of respect these kids have for the church and
their role in it. And, their parents have also changed,
for the positive. So, this tells me that Brother Bill
is on the right track and those of us in the community
need to accept his comments as a rallying call to action
and take up the mantle in our own smaller, more intimate
communities, where we can actually dialogue with the
people the comments are directed to. This would be the
better response to Dr. Cosby's comments, than attacking
him for being forthright, truthful and willing to take
the hits that many people want to lay on him, as opposed
to accepting facts and doing something about it. My
family and I have no problem with our "dirty laundry"
being aired to the white community. While they may have
some hand in some aspect of the situation, we, as a
people, still have far more choices to make on our own.
Brother Bill's expose' can be a stimulant for us to
clean up our own stuff without relying on other folks'
"washing machines and detergents". Charles
Is Bill having a bad day?
He sounds like a bitter, disgusted, tired man. I have
been wondering if the death of his son has been eating
at him or the drug ordeal his daughter Erin went through.
Whatever the cause, he seems at his wits end.
SOMETHING is bothering him. Too bad, too. Because I
absolutely respect and appreciate everything he has
done for Black folks. His presence on Earth has benefited
us Black folks immensely. Toni
Be an example
I believe that Bill Cosby is on target with his comments.
If not him, who? If not now, when? If someone has to
say it, it should come from someone like Bill who had
it hard growing up and still made something of himself,
and is trying to pass it on by giving back to colleges
and universities that are educating others, instead
of Bill O'Reilly or some other left -wing person who
think that they know what is wrong with this country
and the world and can not wait to say it or write about
it. If the truth hurts, then those offended should not
to simply get mad and say"oh no he didn't' they
should do everything in their power to prove him wrong.
Encourage your children to read more and do better in
school. You need to lead by example by picking up a
book yourself instead of a cell phone or television
remote. As a relatively new author I am always gratified
to hear someone say, I don't read much, but I sure love
your books and read it all the way through and sometimes
over (The Venus Chronicles) again. So I say to people
who are getting mad at Bill for speaking out. Don't
get mad at the messenger or the message, get even. Pick
up a book, watch a
documentary instead of MTV. Empower yourself and others
by encouraging them to do the same thing. When it is
all said and done, that's the key to success and empowerment.
Younger generation thinks they can
do it better
It's not like no one knows what's happening in our communities.
Just because someone stood up and said it I feel it's
alright. We need to address these issues and I believe
there are many people who are...Some parents, Our churches,
our community centers and some of our schools. We need
to go back to community, whatever community means to
you. I believe in the church helping young parents raise
their children because that's how it was when I grew
up and I have raised my children the same way. The problem
comes now when this younger generation think they can
do this better than we did...they can't. Carolyn
Black churches, most under utilized resources in our
communities
Bill Cosby is absolutely right...I am currently working
on a proposal which will address the problems of Black
youth throughout America...My plan will utilize Black
churches, one of the most under utilized
resources in our communities...No one can solve "our"
problems but us... Vance
Tell the truth and admit our problems
Mr. Cosby simply told the truth; plain and simple. We
really need to take a close look at ourselves as a people.
Was the Civil Rights Movement meant to place us in a
position to completely assimilate? The African-American
is the only American who still cannot quite get over
the fact that we are AFRICAN AMERICAN. This is not a
bad thing. Is it bad to have pride in your heritage?
Are we so ashamed that we cannot accept the fact, that
although we have made great strides in all areas, we
are being robbed of the progress made everyday from
not only outside of our communities and culture, but
from within. Who is the real enemy? Our sons need real
fathers. Our daughters need real mothers. Our children
need to stop raising themselves. Now I know it's hard.
I make sacrifices everyday; but I am raising a Black
Man; not a Black Boy-Man. We really need to step back
and admit our problems. You have to know you are sick
in order to find a cure. Ava
Speak up
I have always had nothing but respect for Mr. Cosby.
And now he is under attack for being right about "our"
people. I wish more of us would speak up about these
atrocities. Now knowing that his birthday is July 12th,
I have a special admiration for him - both he and my
father share the same birthday! Helen
Set high expectations
I think his comments are on target. He has the credibility
in our community to make the statements. We need to
set high expectations for our children and hold them
accountable to meet those expectations. We should also
give them the love and support to grow and be the best
that they can be. The examples set for our children
will help them grow to be self-confident, responsible
adults. Bob
We have no one to blame but ourselves
Mr. Bill Cosby's comments are right on target. Its sad
but true///our dirty laundry is on the subways and buses
at 3:00pm every school day cussing and talking loud
and abusing the n----- word. We need to get a grip.
I am a product of the deep south who wanted to better
myself and give something back to my mother for her
many sacrifices for sending me off to college. She sold
her insurance policies and worked hard so I could receive
a decent education. Too many of our kids "just
don't want it and their parents don't insist that they
get it." My own son had to be accountable to me
for his time action from 3pm until I got home from work
every day. He also had to engage in some constructive
work or activity. He did not have to engage in activity
of my choosing but he had to choose to do something
worthwhile. Today parents don't seem to have the time
to care. We need to do better and insist that our children
do better. We have no one to blame but ourselves when
it comes to the values we instill in our offspring.
Hats off to Mr. Cosby. Stop the bleeding!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
B e t t y e
Sound the alarm about our kids
Greetings, I have frequently said to my husband "...somebody
needs to sound the alarm about these kids...we are in
a state of emergency...something's got to be done!!!"
I view Bill Cosby's remarks as a concerned man trying
as best he can to "sound the alarm". Renee
in Ohio
Anti-white complaints from Black
leaders
As an African American teacher and playwright, I concur
with Mr. Cosby wholeheartedly. I am frustrated by the
litany of "anti-establishment, anti-White man"
complaints that come from so-called Black leaders, who
rarely take the time to publicly criticize our own failures.
Yes, racism is real; in fact, I was once fired for teaching
Black History. But racism has nothing to do with the
basics of good manners, good morals and high standards.
But alas, such is the legacy of a set of race theories
mired in scapegoating, Marxism and emotion instead of
common sense. Thomas
Lack of education and self-hate
Congratulation to Mr. Cosby for taking a stand on the
problems we face in this nation as Black people.
it is something that bothered me for years. The problems
we face is not only a lack of education, it is also
self hate. We struggled and continue to strive for integration,
because we could not stand the fact that we are Black.
It is ok to want equality, but it is different when
we want to be White, and that is where we are heading.
We do not have a community anymore. We get a little
education and a decent job so we move away from the
Black Community to the Suburbs, to live with white folks
who do not want us in their neighborhood. Our children
become confused because they cannot relate to the majority
culture. Martin Luther King JR, struggle for integration
and it caused him his life and we are no closer to having
equality than when he was when he was alive. The question
I asked myself is, was integration it worth the sacrifices
we made, I say no, not just no but hell no. If we stop
to take a look at ourselves, we are the only group of
people in America and around the world that hate what
we look like. God made us this way for a purpose. We
were the first people that came about on this planet
through creation or evolution. We have a history of
one of the greatest civilization known to man The second
longest dynasty ever was the Egyptian Dynasty, it is
ours let us claim it. What we need to do is build a
Libraries chronicling the history of Slavery in Washington
DC, Kingston Jamaica or Falmouth Jamaica, and Bahia
Brazil. So we can begin to lay the foundation of where
we came from, so our children can learn and begin to
HEAL themselves from the hell we went through, and continue
to go through so from there we can begin to connect
with the rest of the Black world. Take a look at where
we are we are all around the Caribbean, through one
of the largest country in South America Brazil, and
from there we can see and reach the Motherland, Africa.
Garvey
had the idea let us build on it. When we begin to see
ourselves in a positive role the world others will give
us the respect we deserve. But as long as we continue
to be divided we will never see the promised loaned.
We must put aside our pride and begin to mentor our
young so they will have pride in themselves. Ed
Wake-up call for Black community
In my opinion, although harsh Mr. Cosby's comments are
valid and hopefully will be a wake-up call for the Black
community. There is no new info disseminated in his
comments as we are well aware, education often takes
a back seat to sports becoming "the short end of
the stick" in our community. Hopefully the ire
from Mr. Cosby's comments will cause mobilization of
the masses. In fact, I'd be interested to know what
has prompted Mr. Cosby's sudden airing of the Black
community's "dirty laundry," but I have nooo
problem with it... at all! Anjie
Younger generation thinks they can
do it better
It's not like no one knows what's happening in our communities.
Just because someone stood up and said it I feel it's
alright. We need to address these issues and I believe
there are many people who are...Some parents, Our churches,
our community centers and some of our schools. We need
to go back to community, whatever community means to
you. I believe in the church helping young parents raise
their children because that's how it was when I grew
up and I have raised my children the same way. The problem
comes now when this younger generation think they can
do this better than we did...they can't. Carolyn
On target
Bill Cosby's comments were right on target. Unfortunately
too many of us seem to feel that speaking proper English
and getting a meaningful education is being white. Rather
than use this excuse, we should look around and observe
who runs this country and why they are in charge. Carolyn
Success must be earned
Bill Cosby's comments are not only on target, but are
long overdue! Mr. Cosby puts his money where his mouth
is in contributing to the education of black youth.
I am sure that the 'race pimps' take issue
with them because they only stay in business if black
people have someone to blame for their plight. No one
can give success, it must be earned! Tony
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