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African American Police
Officer and foster care survivor takes a stand against
abuse in the foster care system with his new book
"Is There any Love
Down Back? The Four Boys"

Author recalls childhood with abusive
foster parents and eventual rise to success in the police
force.
(AANEWSWIRE)During this National Foster Care Month(May),
Alexander O'Neil has chosen to release his story and
new book as well as launch his national tour as a speaker
to give hope to the millions of children in foster care
who suffer at the hands of abusive parents. Even though
he suffered the sting of abusive foster parents, O'Neil
rose above the adversity, he found many ways to help
others, and in turned he helped himself heal from the
wounds.
African American police officer and foster care survivor
Alexander O'Neil and his brothers were some of the unfortunate
children without parents who were subjected to a life
of violence and abuse, which they suffered in silence.
In his new book, "Is There Any Love Down Back?
The Four Boys" that silence is broken as he takes
readers on a tour through the Hell he knew as home.
This book is riveting - with reflections of a foster
system that for some has great promise, but for others,
there are deep pitfalls of abuse in a system that has
over 500,000 children in foster care. Abuse in foster
care is more widespread than people imagine and children
of color are overrepresented in the system: Here are
some facts:
African-American children make up approximately two
thirds of the foster care population and remain in care
longer.
The U.S. Department of Health and Human Services documents
that the abuse, neglect, and fatalities of children
in foster care is significantly higher than in parental
homes.
Also, once in care, children of color receive fewer
familial visits, fewer contacts with caseworkers, fewer
written case plans, and fewer developmental or psychological
assessments.
"I wrote this book to encourage people to protect
kids in foster care and to try to identify, prevent
or stop the abuse of children, no matter what their
race or background, in foster homes." says Alexander,
who celebrates his 32 years on the police force and
being committed to protecting the lives of others. "While
there are thousands of good foster homes, there are
still too many bad foster homes that abuse and sometimes
kill our children."
Is There Any Love Down Back? takes readers on a whirlwind
tour through the childhood of four boys who grew up
under horrible foster care in Massachusetts. O'Neil
and his brothers -Tony, the oldest; Arnold, O'Neil's
twin; and Michael, the youngest -endured the harsh treatment
of four foster families. The book begins in 1948 at
the home of the first family he remembers. His foster
parents replaced love with violence, and the boys were
constantly beaten and humiliated. O'Neil suffered a
head injury at the hands of his cruel foster mother
that still bothers him today.
The boys spent four years in these conditions before
being moved to another foster care family. Ruled by
a stern, vicious matriarch, the house was more a den
for punishment than a home. O'Neil and his brothers
were beaten and scolded for every little infraction,
starved, neglected and humiliated. Nearly every day,
even in the winter, they were forced to stay "down
back" in the woods until they were called for supper.
The only kindness seemed to come from their foster father,
who seemed to take a particular interest in Arnold.
However, O'Neil learned later that this man repeatedly
molested and violated Arnold, which only compounded
the horrific experiences that littered their childhood.
Throughout, the boys stuck together remembering forgotten
birthdays, sneaking food to starving siblings and defending
each other as they grew older.
After spending his first 16 years in foster care, O'Neil
was placed with biological relatives in Springfield,
Mass. In 1963, he enlisted in the Marines and served
for four years, which included a tour in Vietnam. After
his discharge, he moved back to Springfield and worked
odd jobs before joining the police force. He is currently
a Police Officer, assigned to the Detective Bureau Burglary
Squad in Springfield, MA, and due to retire in August
2005 after 32 years of service and numerous commendations
for outstanding service to the community and police
force. He has three children.
Alexander O'Neil's book may be purchased at local
bookstores as well as popular book chains such as Border's
and Barnes and Nobles. It can also be purchased via
the web at Amazon.com. O'Neil may also be booked as
a speaker for special events and conferences, by going
to the UnityFirst.com speaker's bureau (www.unityFirst.com,
413-734-6444) and interviews with the author may be
arranged by calling (413) 204-2882 or by sending email
to oneilalexo@aol.com.
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