(Washington, D.C.) - The holiday season is often
associated with frenzied activity, but it is also
a time when parents have the opportunity to spend
more quality time with their children. This year,
the National Youth Anti-Drug Media Campaign is urging
parents to give their teens the priceless gift of
time by remaining involved in their lives and scheduling
meaningful family time throughout the holidays.
"Parents remain the most important influence
on children, particularly when it comes to decisions
about drugs," said John P. Walters, Director
of National Drug Control Policy. "Research shows
that spending time with your kids and talking to them
about the dangers of marijuana and other illicit drugs
are proven strategies for preventing drug use. The
Holidays provide a great opportunity for families
to open dialogue with teens through activities like
cooking, shopping, traveling, or volunteering together."
In a world where 60 percent of us feel pressure to
work too much and 80 percent want more family time,
finding time to spend with your kids may seem challenging.
Much time is eaten up in a rush to buy presents and
prepare for the holidays, despite 84 percent of us
saying we would like a less materialistic holiday.
For instance:
l 57 percent of Americans
surveyed by Hallmark currently spend between one and
five hours sending holiday cards.
l Another 40 percent
wait until the last minute to buy holiday gifts and
end up wasting precious time in traffic and lines
at the mall.
l And one out of every
three parents with children under 18 is now working
longer hours to earn money to pay for holiday spending.
Parents are not alone in their desire to create the
"perfect" holiday and spend more time with
their family-kids want more family time together,
too. When asked to pick one or two areas of their
life in which they would like to spend more time,
half of the teenage students involved in the 2003-2004
State of Our Nation's Youth survey said they would
like to spend more time with their family.
Each day more than 4,700 kids under age 18 try marijuana
for the first time, often during unsupervised time
afforded by after school hours, school breaks, and
holidays. Research shows that marijuana can lead to
a host of health, social, learning, and behavioral
problems at a crucial time in young lives. Marijuana
can also be addictive. In fact, more teens are in
treatment for marijuana dependence than for all other
illicit drugs combined.
"Parents can make a difference by scheduling
one-on-one time with their child this holiday season,"
said Dr. Phillippe Cunningham, Associate Professor
of Psychiatry and Behavioral Sciences, Medical University
of South Carolina. "They can find an activity
that their teen is interested in doing together, such
as serving food at a homeless shelter, going ice skating,
or eating lunch at a new restaurant. Time spent with
your teen is also an opportunity to talk to them about
the dangers of marijuana use."
Parental involvement is an important factor in preventing
teen drug use. Parents can get to know their teens
better and open the lines of communication during
the holidays by taking advantage of family travel
time or other seasonal activities, such as baking
holiday cookies or watching favorite holiday movies.
They can use this precious time to ask their teen
how school is, what their friends are doing, or what
their goals are.
In addition, parents can also help keep their kids
drug-free by starting an ongoing dialogue about the
dangers of marijuana and other illicit drugs. Research
shows that kids who learn about the risks of drug
abuse from their parents or caregivers are about 36
percent less likely to smoke marijuana, 50 percent
less likely to use inhalants, 56 percent less likely
to use cocaine, and 65 percent less likely to use
LSD than kids who don't. And two-thirds of youth ages
13-17 say upsetting their parents or losing the respect
of family and friends is one of the main reasons they
don't smoke marijuana or use other drugs.
When talking to children about drugs this holiday
season, it is important for parents to send a clear
message about staying away from marijuana. Research
shows that teens of parents who strongly disapprove
of trying marijuana are far less likely to have used
marijuana in the past month than teens whose parents
only somewhat disapprove or who expressed no clear
opinion.
Parents can also make a difference by monitoring
where their teen is, who they are with and setting
rules with clear consequences for breaking them. Lower
levels of marijuana use were found among teens whose
parents monitor their activities and peer relationships,
limit the time spent watching TV, give them responsibilities
around the house and recognize their teen's successes
and good behavior.
Resources are available to help parents prevent
teen marijuana use at www.TheAntiDrug.com.
The site also offers weekly parenting tips via email
and a free pamphlet called "Keeping your Kids
Drug-Free: A How-To Guide for Parents and Caregivers."
The pamphlet can also be ordered by calling 1-800-788-2800.
In 1998, with bipartisan support, Congress created
the National Youth Anti-Drug Media Campaign with the
goal of educating and enabling young people to reject
illicit drugs. The Campaign is a strategically integrated
communications effort that combines advertising with
public communications outreach to deliver anti-drug
messages and skills to America's youth, their parents,
and other influential adults.
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